No issues AT ALL using detergent; don’t know where that old wive’s tale came from. Don’t use fabric softener or detergents that contain it though. I’ve used Ariel Non Bio on my Halkon Hunt, it’s 14 years old and still waterproof. Never used Nikwax either, even though Gore recommend a ‘topical water repellency restorative’ (NIKWAX will do it!). If you use that, tumble drying helps. I don’t own a tumble drier, just a clothes line. Never ironed it either. Dry it inside out on the line though because if you don’t the inside won’t dry!