Sorry Houlty I only have bad news for you – I has the same problem so ordered a spare on back order for 6 months at Leigh Bait and Tackle – then tried Davies and eventually spoke to Simon Wilsmore direct (though he no longer works with Milo gear unfortunately).
Result was no parts so I sold mine for spares last week to a load who had same issue!
I think they have also changed the spec as about a year ago I did get a replacement leg unit but the teeth on it are a slightly diffeent angle and they wouldnt bite.
so unless u get lucky you could try filing the fittings down to see if u can get them to “bite”; source another partially “dead” one for spares or I’m afraid its new roller time.
Great rollers but very fragile.
If you need a recommendation the new Preston Mega V is very good though it wont fit in your carryall. On four legged options I have gone for the MAP flat V which is nice and stable.